Greed

 

GREED is one of seven basic character flaws or “dark” personality traits. We all have the potential for greedy tendencies, but in people with a strong fear of lack or deprivation, Greed can become a dominant pattern.

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What is greed?

Greed is the tendency to selfish craving, grasping and hoarding. It is defined as:

A selfish or excessive desire for more than is needed or deserved, especially of money, wealth, food, or other possessions [1]

Other names for greed include avarice, covetousness and cupidity.

Selfish and excessive desire is widely considered immoral, a violation of natural or divine law. For example, “avarice” is one of the seven deadly sins in Catholicism (avarice: pleasing oneself with material acquisitions and possessions instead of pleasing God). And according to Buddhism, “craving” is a fundamental hindrance to enlightenment (craving: compulsively seeking happiness through acquiring material things).

As with the opposite chief feature of self-destruction, greed stems from a basic fear of life. To be exact, greed is driven by a fundamental sense of deprivation, a need for something that is lacking or unavailable.

When this feeling of lack is particularly strong, a person can become utterly fixated on seeking what they “need”, always trying to get hold of the one thing that will finally eliminate the deep-rooted feeling of not having enough.

That one thing could be money, power, sex, food, attention, knowledge … just about anything. It could be something concrete or abstract, real or symbolic. But it will be something very specific on which the entire need-greed complex becomes fixated.

Once that happens, life becomes a quest to acquire as much of it as possible.

Components of greed

Like all chief features, greed involves the following components:

  1. Early negative experiences
  2. Misconceptions about the nature of self, life or others
  3. A constant fear and sense of insecurity
  4. A maladaptive strategy to protect the self
  5. A persona to hide all of the above in adulthood

Early Negative Experiences

In the case of greed, the early negative experiences typically consist of insufficient or inadequate nurturing in early childhood, perhaps enough to threaten the child’s survival.

All infants are born with a natural desire for love, nurture, care, attention and interaction. In some cases, however, the source of such things—notably the caregiver—may be absent or unavailable. Perhaps not all of the time, but enough for the infant to experience the lack. Enough for the child to become terrified of never getting enough of what he or she needs.

The situation could be natural and unavoidable, like the untimely death of a parent, or living through a time of famine. Alternatively, the situation could be deliberately imposed, such as willful neglect.

Another example would be a mother who is too off-her-head on drugs to look after her child.

Whatever the circumstances, the effect on the child is a sense of deprivation, unfulfilled need, of never having enough.

Another common factor in the formation of greed is the availability of substitutes. Imagine, for example, a parent who fails to provide nurturing but – out of guilt – provides lots of gifts in the form of money, toys, chocolate, TV. In effect, the parent says “You cannot have me, you cannot have what you really need, but – hey – you can have this instead.”

Ultimately, the substitute is always inadequate. No amount of TV can make up for lack of human contact. No amount of chocolate can make up for lack of love. But the child learns to make do with whatever is available.

Misconceptions

From such experiences of deprivation and lack, a child comes to perceive life as being unreliable and limited — but also containing the missing ingredient for happiness:

My well-being depends on me getting all that I desire.

I cannot truly be myself, a whole person, until I get what has always been missing.

Life is limited. There isn’t enough for everyone. I miss out because other people are taking my share, getting what is rightfully mine.

Once I have it all, I will never lack anything ever again.

Over time, the growing child might also become cynical about what life has to offer:

All I ever get are unsatisfactory substitutes.

I cannot trust anyone to give me what I need.

If I am given a gift, there must be something wrong with it.

Everything falls short of my requirements.

Fear

Based on the above  misconceptions and early negative experiences, the child becomes gripped by a specific kind of fear. In this case, the fear is of lackof having to go without something essential as there may not be enough of it to go around.

What exactly “it” is depends upon the individual’s own idea of what it is they really need, but it will be something specific like love, attention, power, fame, money, and so on.

Because of this constant fear, the individual will obsessively crave the “needed” thing. They will also tend to envy those who have that thing.

Strategy

The basic strategy for coping with this fear of lack is to acquire, possess and hoard the “needed” thing. Typically this involves:

  • obsessively seeking the chosen substitute for the original lack;
  • compulsively acquiring it;
  • hoarding it;
  • preventing others from acquiring it;
  • criticising what is available (in the hope of eliciting something better);
  • blaming others for failing to provide enough.

Persona

Finally, emerging into adulthood, the chief feature of greed puts on a socially-acceptable mask which says to the world, “I am not selfish. I am not greedy. I am not doing this for me. See how generous I am. See how my possessions make other people happy.” In fact, the greedy person is never happy so long as the possibility of lack remains.

The mask of greed also manifests as envy. The chief feature thinks to itself: If it isn’t socially acceptable to crave and grasp and hoard, I shall go around criticising others who crave and grasp and hoard more obviously than me. That way, people won’t suspect how bad I really am.

All people are capable of this kind of behaviour. When it dominates the personality, however, one is said to have a chief feature of greed.

Positive and Negative Poles

In the case of greed, the positive pole is a state which may be referred to as DESIRE, EGOISM or APPETITE, while the negative pole is one of VORACITY or GLUTTONY.

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Egoism (not to be confused with egotism) is state of self-centred acquisitiveness: I will have what I want and need. It is the opposite of altruism.

Why is this a positive pole? Because in moderation, satisfying one’s own needs and desires is part of what life is about. We are not all here to be self-sacrificing saints. We are here to make choices, and most of our choices will be driven by our own needs and desires. There is nothing intrinsically wrong with having a “healthy appetite”. In fact, it is healthier to be driven by one’s desires rather than one’s fears.

Voracity or gluttony is a state of excessive egoism, unjustified acquisitiveness. Not only does it cause one to acquire more than is ever going to be necessary, it can also lead to others being deprived of the same thing.

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Moreover, once the negative pole of greed takes control of the personality, it does not care who it hurts in the process of getting what it “needs”. All things are secondary to the fear of lack. This is why, of all the chief features, greed is the hardest on others in one’s life.

Note

[1] http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/greed

Further Reading

TYDFor an excellent book abut the chief features and hw to handle them, see Transforming Your Dragons by José Stevens.

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35 Responses to “Greed”


  1. 1 Liz 28 Dec 2011 at 9:12 am

    Brilliant!
    I actually have a mother who out of greed even hides food, everything from baking soda, cheese, bread, and is always trying use her family for something to she does not want to spend her money on.

    Her sick behavior has become even worst with age. She lies about everything and is always up to something. It’s hard not being able to trust your own mother, actually I wish I never knew her.

    • 2 barry 28 Dec 2011 at 9:55 am

      Ouch. It is said that impatience is hardest on yourself while greed is hardest on those around you. I would just add, bear in mind that under all that self-serving behaviour there is a deep-seated terror of deprivation. Best of luck to both of you.

    • 3 Amina 08 Apr 2013 at 7:24 pm

      its not your mother’s problem actually its your problem…

      • 4 Liam 29 Jun 2013 at 10:26 pm

        How have you worked this out???

    • 5 Nicole 30 Jun 2014 at 7:21 pm

      I am afraid you’ve misunderstood the whole point of this exercise, that should focus mainly on finding your own true character flaw, henceforth enabling you to tame your dragon than diagnosing your mother’s. It seems quite obvious you both suffer from the same chief feature, otherwise you wouldn’t be so bothered by hers. Moreover, the first
      listed cause for GREED is lacking paternal or maternal love and affection…

    • 6 john 17 Sep 2014 at 12:38 am

      Yeah well fuck you! Quit your bitching

      [Ok, that's quite enough of that - B.]

  2. 7 Andrew 12 Aug 2012 at 6:32 pm

    I must say the realization of greed as my chief feature just came crashing down like a ton of bricks.
    I live in poverty so my greed hasn’t been for expensive material things, but rather for knowledge and truth and the desire for personal growth and reflection at the expense of others.
    My girlfriend just flat out called me selfish last night after I didn’t want to go to bed as early as she did and then begged her to tell me why she was upset. All for my own need and with complete disregard for her feelings.
    I never had a lack of gifts or food growing up. But I did have a very distinct lack of emotional love and support from my parents that continues to this day. Unfortunately it’s gotten to the point over the last few years that it’s manifested as major depressive disorder and frequent panic attacks for which I’m now taking medication.
    All I have to say is ‘wow’. This has been a very sobering morning

    • 8 Kayla 31 Dec 2013 at 4:30 am

      I have a personally question for you, if u don’t mind me asking you what kind of medication are you taken & the only reason I’m asking such a personally ?? Is because I too went threw the same problems I’m my childhood & now that I’m older I have these random panic attacts. Many doctors have tryed to put me on different meds but to be honest I’m scared to take somthing that’s pointless and what if they woundnt work.

      • 9 Damir 24 Aug 2014 at 2:07 am

        No please! Meds will only hurt you in the long run.

  3. 10 Derrick 20 Sep 2012 at 2:13 am

    I’ve reached a crossroad: how do I render appropriate my acquisitiveness of knowledge, in my ‘growth phase’ as you put it (I tentatively take it as my soul’s aim in this life, to put it in your terms-officially materialist atm-and it’s what led me to this site, incidentally thru a google exploration of stalin and gogol’s different moralities. Huh.)

    I never had a ‘lack’- the first birthday present I remember was an encyclopedia-tell me why, whose entire collection I had within a few more bdays. The rental units were part of the new middle-class of a post-colonial third world (my dad is 3 months older than my country), both university educated (very unusual, economically but a common cultural aspiration from then and now, men and women) and my teachers all said I had so much potential-and as many questions.

    I want to know all of it, but from a bloody-minded determination to know the conditions of my existence, to know the worst for it, and to provide for it. We all want wisdom, which is manifested in anticipating the forseeable and hedging accordingly. At what point do I know enough, and any more is greed? I am also willing to retransmit inspiring information to all who will listen (while pointing them in the direction of the source, for extra) and since my hunger for knowledge in itself can’t deprive others of that or other knowledge, que problem?

    • 11 barry 21 Sep 2012 at 7:48 am

      It just sounds like you have a huge drive to acquire knowledge — I don’t see any problem, but then you haven’t mentioned experiencing a problem either. The only issue would be if that drive comes from an irrational existential fear (such as “I must know everything or my life will have no meaning” or “I must know more than anybody else if I am to win”) rather than authentic desire (“knowledge is of inherent value”).

  4. 12 Phil Robles 17 Feb 2013 at 6:23 am

    Hi, first off, I want to say thank you for having a series of such insightful posts. You really gave me a new scope through which I can view and improve upon myself.

    But as to the “Greed” article, I saw that in others like “Self-Deprecation” you provided ideas on how to solve the issue. With greed here, I see none. Why is that?

    • 13 barry 17 Feb 2013 at 8:14 am

      Oh my gosh, you’re right. Haha, maybe I was subconsciously taunting all those with Greed who would read it and then feel the “lack” of helpful advice!

      Thanks for pointing this out Phil. I wrote all of these character flaw pieces in one session and must have just lost track of this one. Now added to my priority TO DO list.

      Barry

      • 14 barry 05 Mar 2014 at 2:03 pm

        OK Phil – see my response to john, below. I might incorporate a lot of that into the main text, with pretty diagrams.

    • 15 Debbie Pilkington Miller 12 Feb 2014 at 6:16 pm

      My Oppinion is, There is No cure for greed! You either ARE or ARE NOT! I know someone who has been this way all her life…so greedy that she stole many things from many people for the simple reason of having them in her own possession! She has allowed material things to ruin, even rot instead of offering them to someone else that could have used them. She actually used to hide food from her family and friends and instead of cooking at home, would sneak off to a Restaurant to eat alone! And then, LIE about it! And when she thought she had a “Friend” she would do everything possible to keep that person to herself…if you tried to be friends with the same person, she would get really defensive and mad over it! Needless to say she is now Obese, alone, and still greedy!

      • 16 barry 14 Feb 2014 at 11:50 pm

        Hi Debbie,
        She sounds like a classic case of someone with intense greed in several forms, but little awareness of it, and still less empathy for others. In fact, she could perhaps qualify for the label “Machiavellian personality type”, which just means a person whose social life is merely a deliberate tactic to serve their own selfish ends. Very hard work to be around…!
        Cheers
        Barry

  5. 17 Jasmine Cougar 30 Apr 2013 at 9:59 pm

    I really think what you said is true…. I’m writing a paper on the effects of greed and how it can change someone’s life. And what you said was helpful cause I didn’t understand why someone would go out of their way just for money or fame or even food :-p…
    But thanks again for your help…

    • 18 barry 30 Apr 2013 at 10:01 pm

      Thanks Jasmine.

      • 19 Jasmine Cougar 06 May 2013 at 1:39 am

        you are very welcome!!!!!!

  6. 20 Gayle 24 Aug 2013 at 11:13 am

    Thank you very much for this article. It has allowed me to have far more compassion for my father, about who’s greed I’ve puzzled over for most of my life but particular at the moment because even when he is facing life threatening surgery he is unable to conquer his greed for food. I just realised through reading the above that the lack he is so fearful of is that of his own fathers love, who in turn was most likely unable to express his love owing to his experience as he was disowned by his own father as a young man. I had a dream this week in which I was clearly trying to work out my own greed for food which is what brought me to this article. Incredibly helpful & given me much comfort & lots to think about, thank you.

    • 21 barry 24 Aug 2013 at 11:42 am

      Thanks, Gayle
      I’m really delighted that you got something of value from the article.
      Cheers
      Barry

  7. 22 sab 17 Nov 2013 at 2:53 pm

    Great article! Very helpful and informative.

  8. 23 john 03 Dec 2013 at 12:18 am

    What is the best way to cure this in oneself?

    I am at the point where all I think about is how to get money and become rich. It’s draining me, as I can’t stop this feeling of insatiability. It’s causing me to experience shortness of breath, and affecting my concentration.

    I have become Daniel Plainview – I am not interested in anything or anyone that doesn’t seem to help me become rich. I need to fix this before it gives me a heart attack.

    Thanks for your help.

    • 24 barry 05 Mar 2014 at 12:24 pm

      Hi John

      Apologies for my very late reply – I’ve been out of action due to health issues, creating a huge backlog, but getting back up to speed now. In the meantime, I hope you’ve managed to avoid that heart attack.

      As for greed and how to cure it… You are not the first one to ask and I can see that the greed pattern is taking you to an unhealthy place, i.e. the vicious circle of addiction. I’ll see if I can give a full and helpful response. 

      By the way, in looking through scientific articles on the nature of greed, it’s amazing to me how unsympathetic and judgemental in tone many of them are. Instead of saying, for example, “greed is a destructive habit that can be as painful for the individual with greed as it is for those around him…”, they tend to say (in effect) “greed is a destructive habit indulged in by bad, selfish people who ought to be ashamed of themselves.” 

      It’s also very easy to wag a finger at those driven by greed and blame them for the global financial crisis. Saying after the fact that certain people acted selfishly and recklessly out of “sheer greed” is like saying terrorists act out of “sheer evil” — it doesn’t explain anything, it just makes “them” out be less human than “us”. 

      One good and recent exception is the book Scarcity (see bottom for link).

      Elements of greed

      Let’s first unpack the elements of greed, particularly in relation to money and wealth. 

      By definition, greed is a compelling “need” to constantly acquire, consume or possess more of something than is actually necessary or justifiable. As you probably know from experience, the basic ingredients of greed are: 

      Obsessive desire: An all-consuming, trance-like state of lust, hunger or craving for something (in this case money, though it could also be sex, food, power, fame, etc…).

      Compulsive striving: An overriding commitment of one’s time and energy to seek and acquire, as though on a sacred quest for the Holy Grail, leaving all else behind.

      Insatiability: The (initially unrecognised) impossibility of final fulfilment, i.e. that the desire is literally insatiable. There is no such thing as enough.

      Brief gratification: The intoxicating but all-too-brief feelings of triumph and relief that are experienced as the object of desire is approached and even attained.

      Comedown: Feeling that the “win”, which is soon spent and lost, was just not enough. Frustration at the transience of such pleasure, especially given the investment of time and energy. (“Was it really worth it?”) Shame and guilt seeing the damaging effects of one’s actions to one’s relationships, reputation, financial security, etc. (“What was I thinking?” “I’m hurting the very people I love.” “I’m ruining my life when it’s all been going so well.”) Anxiety over the uncertain future (“I’m on a slippery slope to hell”).

      Rationalising the desire: The only clear course of action, it seems, is to try and satisfy the same old longing because it seems to hold the promise of being a cure-all. “Surely one big “win” would stop all these terrible feelings once and for all? And this time I won’t blow it. I’ll keep it… I’ll even give some away… Everybody will thank me for it!”

      You can presumably be experiencing all these at some level at once, or have different ones in your foreground at different times. Still, it is very comparable to a cycle of addiction, in that the desire becomes harder and harder to satisfy, so the target level of a “win” or a “fix” keeps going up, which in turn requires more and more investment of time, energy and money. There is also a greater cost to self-esteem, as you become more and more “enslaved” to the process. And of course, a greater cost to one’s other commitments, such as work and relationships, which compete for the same time and energy.

      I just came across a NY Times article by a guy called Sam Polk, a former hedge-fund trader, who describes EXACTLY this pattern in his own experience:

      “In my last year on Wall Street my bonus was $3.6 million — and I was angry because it wasn’t big enough. I was 30 years old, had no children to raise, no debts to pay, no philanthropic goal in mind. I wanted more money for exactly the same reason an alcoholic needs another drink: I was addicted.”

      The survival instinct in greed

      Behind the craving and grasping is the unspeakable fear of not getting one’s basic needs met while being dependent on others. Or, to give it a different slant, a fear of being dependent on others to provide for you when they can’t be relied upon to do that. The grasping behaviour of greed is driven by early, traumatising experiences of deprivation that may be lost to memory, but the behaviour emerges later in childhood, adolescence and adulthood as one of our most essential survival instincts comes into play: competition.

      Competition for resources is a universal instinct and one of the most important factors in biology. Different species can compete for the same watering hole, for example. Within the same species, males can compete for the same female, or for “top dog” position. At an instinctive level we are still hunter-gatherers who survive against the odds by making sure we have what we need. The cave-dweller within us is still primed to hunt, catch, gather and hoard.

      We are also a tribal species who will instinctively take from other tribes as a desperate measure to feed our own. This is pretty much what all post-apocalyptic movies are showing us: take away civilisation, and we soon return to “acting like animals.” 

      Fixation

      So a child who deeply fears “lack” is more likely to act competitively and acquisitively, making sure that he gets whatever he may need — in fact, more than he needs; the more the better. He may not remember what it was exactly that he was deprived of in his early years. He just has that awful feeling, and the determination to get over it by fulfilling himself.

      But at some point as he grows up he will also “fixate” on an idea of what it is that is so needed. For example, if he lacked intimacy as a baby, and so grew up feeling needy (though without understanding why), but later experiences a whiff of intimacy during sex, he might decide that he needs constant sex to recover that blissful feeling (not realising it is only a poor substitute for real intimacy). And thus he becomes a sex addict.

      So in a way, greed is a like a state of being hyper-focused on one’s desires … or one particular fixated desire, which is a substitute for the original need.

      Money

      Money is a common substitute for many things. Power, freedom, comfort, independence, popularity. And, the pursuit of wealth not only taps into this competitive survival instinct very neatly — seeking, hunting, catching, hoarding, winning, stealing if necessary… It also MAGNIFIES the sensations involved (desperation, excitement, thrill, triumph, reward) and it ACCELERATES the whole cycle, from what may have been days, weeks and even months (to acquire enough food to get through winter, say) to hours, minutes or even seconds (to win a jackpot).

      Sam Polk, that former hedge-trader I quoted earlier, writes:

      “When I walked onto that trading floor for the first time and saw the glowing flat-screen TVs, high-tech computer monitors and phone turrets with enough dials, knobs and buttons to make it seem like the cockpit of a fighter plane, I knew exactly what I wanted to do with the rest of my life. It looked as if the traders were playing a video game inside a spaceship; if you won this video game, you became what I most wanted to be — rich.”

      The satisfaction, he says, wasn’t just about the money. It was about the power.

      “Because of how smart and successful I was, it was someone else’s job to make me happy.”

      Someone else’s job to make me happy… That also says a lot about the inner dynamics of greed. A sense of entitlement to being looked after.

      So, greed is certainly multi-layered.

      • It’s partly a natural instinctive urge to acquire, but the on/off switch has become stuck “ON”.
      • It’s partly a deep-seated gut anxiety around lack, caused by bad experiences in one’s early life.
      • It’s partly an assumption that what is needed is something out there in the world.
      • There might also be an assumption that there is a lot of competition for this prized thing, so one’s focus on getting it must be relentless.
      • And it’s partly an addiction to “getting” as much as possible, because there is no such thing as enough.

      The solution to geed must be similarly multi-layered.

      In no particular order:

      • Understand that greed is a compulsion, but choice overrides compulsion. You have many choices available you you. Don’t justify your behaviours by saying that you have no other choice. You can stop at any time and ask yourself, what are my options here? Their are various points where your freedom of choice can be brought to bear.
      • Identify how the cycle of addiction works within you, if you can. Each part of the cycle is a falsehood, a weak link that can be broken.
      • Get a hold of the idea “There is no such thing as enough.” See if you can feel its presence in your own mind, or some variation of it. Then affirm to yourself how illogical and destructive it is. See if you can decide for yourself what “enough” is – a specific level of income, for example. Notice any resistance to that and see where it’s coming from (competitiveness? fear of losing? fear of insufficiency?)
      • Reduce the time you spend looking for opportunities to satisfy the craving. Choose not to spend time looking at the things that turn your craving on. Avoid stimulating the desire with thoughts of competing for the prize. For example, who cares what your neighbours earn? — it’s none of your business. Avoid hanging out with guys who tak competitively about their earnings and show off about their bonuses. Try not to feed any thoughts about getting more and more. Similarly…
      • Reduce attention to things you want but don’t have. Instead, be mindful to take real pleasure in what you do have. In other words, don’t just tick the boxes for the things you’ve acquired, then focus on what’s next on the list, but relish the things that you have with gusto. If you have a private swimming pool, love swimming in that pool! One of the factors in greed is a disappointment even in great success because of the background thought that there is always more to be had. Instead, immerse yourself in the sensory and visceral pleasures of what you do have — let your instincts know that they have been well met at a physical level!
      • Also, notice the things you have that you didn’t acquire through your own striving. Some people with greed, for example, are born into wealth but don’t notice it because they are completely fixated on resolving, say, the lack of intimacy. So, pay attention to what you have. If gratitude works for you, express gratitude as a daily exercise. If not gratitude, then appreciation — express (just to yourself is OK) your appreciation for the good things you have. Let the appreciation grow — you will find yourself feel happier.
      • Last but not least: Address the underlying anxiety. See a therapist if necessary, or just try introspection and journal-writing if you have the self-discipline. See if you can identify the “lack” or whatever it is that you fear so terribly. Naming things is empowering. Find the association between this anxiety and your greed-type actions. Know that you have the choice not to act on that fear. You may also be able to shed a realistic light on the fear so that it diminishes – “I used to crave food because I got so little. Now I can afford to feed myself, I know that I’m not going to starve to death as an adult, and so there is no need to gorge on food at every opportunity.” Bring the light of conscious awareness and choice to your inner drives and conflicts.
      • One more I nearly forgot. Try, try, try not to judge yourself too harshly. Greed is one of the traps that anyone can fall into. It’s not as easy to embrace as, say, self-deprecation because it so so outwardly and blatantly selfish, which is socially unacceptable, even if the individual doing it hates himself for it. But just hating yourself for it solves nothing. However, being able to come to terms with it — to say “I have this problem. It’s like an addiction, but I’m dealing with it. I’m getting on top of it. I’m going to make sure no one is ever harmed by it again, including me.” — that’s heading towards a solution.

        Barry

        Sam Polk on YouTube

        Scarcity: Why Having Too Little Means So Much, by Sendhil Mullainathan & Eldar Shafir. Amazon.com

      • 25 Rebecca Smith 16 Mar 2014 at 5:54 pm

        This is exactly what I was looking for. Thank you for your thoughts, and explanations on what greed is, and how to cope with it as a self fault. I wonder if there are any articles about protecting yourself from the greed of others, particularly those who are close to you. I feel that I have been in several situations recently where I was the victim of another’s greed. Due to the situation, a simple ‘no’, which I am good at, was not the answer. One situation was my son, whose father died when he was 15, the other was a work situation with a ‘boss’ who was insecure, cruel, and misused his supervisory position. Are you familiar with articles, or do you have any thoughts on how to deal with greed from that angle? Thanks, Becky

  9. 27 David D Reveles 24 Jan 2014 at 7:17 am

    Lack…WOW. Mothers and fathers. I really should commit to these problems from running my life anymore. This article is terribly accurate to the spiritual issues I feel in life. I;ve gained value from this and I comment as a way of remembering what greed is all about, I hope and pray that I may be able to mend myself and rid of vulgar habits. Im not even religious bruh! AWESOME AND GREAT

    • 28 barry 25 Jan 2014 at 9:34 pm
    • 29 barry 26 Jan 2014 at 3:17 pm

      Hi David,

      What I meant to say was… I’m glad this article was of some value too you, and good luck with that demon greed!!

      Barry

  10. 30 Kasey Hawk 19 Mar 2014 at 3:11 pm

    This was a very interesting article Barry. I enjoyed reading it and agree with most of the stuff. I cant save that I have been greedy about anything in my life though. Maybe as a child with my toys or something, but not to much of anything today. I am a very likeable person and don’t do anything I’m not expose to. I an writing a research paper on greed and this was very helpful.

    Thanks Barry,
    Kasey Hawk

    • 31 barry 24 Mar 2014 at 2:20 pm

      Cheers Kasey

  11. 32 Michelle 11 Sep 2014 at 3:05 pm

    Excellent article, best I’ve ever read about greed.

    I have a brother who is a self-made billionaire and he is the greediest person one can ever imagine. Not only greedy but excessively selfish as well. He defrauded our mother out of her half of their partnership when he was just 25 years old by threatening to not be her son anymore if she didn’t rescind the contract. He has restricted his own family’s spending to the point where his wife feels resentful of anyone that even asks for financial help. He is extremely envious of siblings in any successes they may have and revels in any of their failures. He barely helps to financially support our parents and brags about it, yet his annual contribution equals about $50 of my household’s income as a percentage of his income and he still wants siblings to do more! He threatened to put my mom on welfare recently and he reconsidered when she said he’d better not dare do that. He is devious, cunning, and shameful in all aspects of business and personal life and I am ashamed of him. His attitude and behavior towards his parents and siblings is atrocious and has destroyed our family.

    Everything in your article is true, I have witnessed it first hand and it makes me sick at heart. Thank you for affirming what I have always suspected all along with him, a fear of being unlovable and not receiving the love he needed as a child.

    • 33 barry 12 Sep 2014 at 8:59 am

      Hi Michelle,

      Really glad the article rings true for you, or rather your brother. But … good grief. He must be one of the most serious cases I’ve ever come across. Not so much a textbook example but the very epitome of greed, full-on and larger-than-life. Amazing. And also horrendous for you and others in the family. (With greed, it’s those nearest who suffer the most.)

      Thanks so much for sharing,

      Barry

  12. 34 June 17 Oct 2014 at 12:51 am

    when did you make this I need it for a paper to cite it

  13. 35 Lera 17 Oct 2014 at 10:35 am

    Hi Barry,

    Wow my so called ex fiancée is so greedy and so selfish we bought a house together and when separated he wanted everything to himself what is worse its a joint bond. Lawyers are so surprised with his behaviour, to show eh is greedy I found that he was stealing money from his work environment millions and he was busted. this thing of taking a small amount landing up buying big things. Even now he has not learnt his lesson he only thinks of himself not even for his own kids. I think when his asleep he sees money only and he likes to play big and he is a very good liar from his background to his education which he comes from normal family but said to people from rich family. I’ve never seen a person so evil like that one. He is in denial of things and thinks he is the only one who exists. People are really sick out there talking of him, i’m glad i’m no longer with such a person.


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