DOMINANCE is one of seven possible goals in life, chosen by a soul before taking birth. It drives the personality to assert its own will through positions of power or influence.

“I’m calling the shots here.”

Dominance can be defined as power or influence over others, so the goal of Dominance is all about seeking power or influence in life. It can be adopted by any soul for any lifetime in which they want to be in control, assert themselves, or make an impact.

As the cardinal action goal, it focuses on being a decision maker, one who chooses courses of action.

Dominance is about the use of will and its direction is outwards. Whereas those with a goal of Growth seek to be changed within by their experience, those with Dominance seek to change (influence, affect) the world around them.

And whereas those with Acceptance seek harmonious relationships, with Dominance there is a need for imbalanced relationships in which one leads and others follow. Indeed, anyone with a goal of Dominance will have a natural affinity with those who have the goal of Submission — Dominance wants to lead and Submission wants to follow.

Dominance enables one to accomplish things, though it is neutral in terms of what one seeks to accomplish. The nature of what one sets out to achieve in the world is purely a matter of choice, which in turn will be a reflection of one’s personal maturity and level of evolution. An older soul can be just as dominant as a younger soul, but the focus of will — what it is they want to achieve in life — will probably be quite different. A dominant young soul, for instance, could run a law firm, while a dominant old soul could run Zen monastery. The goal of Dominance would ideal in both cases.

Having the goal of Dominance

Typical traits: determined, assertive, strong-willed, forward, domineering, pushy

If you have a goal of Dominance, then you will have a tendency to want to be in charge of things and a determination to get results. People with a goal of Dominance feel driven to get themselves into positions of leadership or influence — they want to be the main cause of what happens, the prime mover, the one who gets things done. They generally prefer to be the top dog, the head honcho, the boss.

What they put themselves in charge of could be anything from the family home to school classroom to a global empire — whatever the scale or context, Dominance is all about the degree of influence within that context.

The goal of Dominance is the most extraverted of all the goals (that is, the most outwardly focused). Not all extraverts have the goal of Dominance, however. Extraversion is really an umbrella term for several different outwardly-focused personality traits, including gregariousness and talkativeness. Those with Dominance are not necessarily gregarious or talkative (unless they happen to be Sage souls, of course!). Rather, they tend to be determined and assertive.

Having the goal of Dominance can add this extraverted dimension to an otherwise introverted soul character. A naturally introverted Scholar, for example, will appear somewhat extraverted (i.e. determined and assertive) if he or she has the goal of Dominance in life — examples include Margaret Thatcher, Alan Greenspan and Al Gore.

(Incidentally, having Dominance as a goal may sound very similar to being a King soul essence, but there is a key difference. Having a goal of Dominance means seeking power, but King souls do not necessarily seek power — they naturally exude power as a default quality. A King soul may or may not seek to use that power in any given lifetime.)

Dominance: positive and negative

Positive pole

Dominance

Negative pole
Leadership. Dictatorship.

The positive pole of Dominance is leadership. This means leading from the front, striving to make good decisions, taking responsibility for the outcomes, and having respect for those who choose to follow.

The negative pole of Dominance is dictatorship: “Just do it because I say so.” This means forcing outcomes by giving others no choice, blaming others when the results are not as expected, treating subordinates with contempt.

A personality in the negative pole of Dominance can come across as pushy and overbearing, someone interested only in end results regardless of the means of getting there. Getting things done is what matters, and if a few people feel bruised along the way… well, that’s their problem.

For this reason, living with someone with a goal of Dominance can be particularly difficult for those with a goal of Acceptance, for whom the quality of relationships is all-important.

If you find yourself caught in the negative pole of Dominance — being overbearing or bullying — the antidote lies in temporarily pursuing the positive pole of the opposite goal. In this case, you should pursue the positive pole of Submission which is a state of devotion — being committed to serving some purpose, something greater than oneself.

To do this, you pay attention to what purpose you are truly wanting to serve by being the one in charge, as this is what you have lost touch with. Your ability to wield power and influence has become blind to the situation, detached from any sense of purpose, so this is what you must focus on. Identify what achievement it is you are devoted to, and be willing to serve that purpose by respectfully listening to others who are able to help you.

Dominance: some famous examples

Note the look in the eyes that seems to be saying, “You’re either with me or against me.”

Alexander the Great

Margaret Thatcher

Vladimir Putin

Vladimir Putin

Condaleeza Rice

Napoleon Bonaparte

George Washington

Goal: the driving force of the personality

Growth • Retardation

Acceptance • Rejection

DominanceSubmission

• Contentment

The Michael Teachings

4 Responses to “Dominance”


  1. 1 Jeffrey Aguilar 07 Oct 2012 at 6:34 am

    What goals in personalities usally attract. For example does a submissive goal want someone that has a goal of dominance?

    • 2 barry 07 Oct 2012 at 7:06 am

      Yes, the action goals are complementary (dominance attracts submission and vice versa) while the others work differently: acceptance attracts many, especially others with acceptance, while rejection attracts very few, and actually repels a lot of others. Not sure about growth and retardation. I suspect growth is attracted to anything different and interesting. I have growth and I’m very attracted to all of ‘em in some way! My wife has acceptance.

  2. 3 Aslan Naurzbai 05 Mar 2014 at 7:42 pm

    holy shit, this classification of motivations is so simple! i can apply it in life. i just tried to analyze my friends/parents etc – they all have some dominating trait. i m personally the growth type!

    • 4 barry 05 Mar 2014 at 7:50 pm

      That’s great to hear, Aslan!
      For the record, I’m in growth too, while my wife is in acceptance. For me, life is about learning to become as conscious and wise as possible; for my wife, life is about giving and receiving love, experiencing ‘communion’. It’s all good!
      Cheers
      Barry


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